Posts in: Reflection

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    Family

    Reflection

    Trauma

    No, I'm not Writing a Book

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    This is it—the culmination of all the writing I will probably ever do. When I was younger, I envisioned writing a book about my life. However, I’ve come to realize that this likely won’t happen. I don’t feel the need for my words …

    Transgender

    Reflection

    SocialMedia

    UKPolitics

    Religion

    The Death of the Open Internet in the Upside Down

    I posted yesterday about Bluesky suspending #transgender authors. This type of nonsense will continue as long as people insist on algorithm based, centralized (no, Bluesky isn’t decentralised) social media. I feel like a grumpy old person …

    Family

    Reflection

    MentalHealth

    SocialMedia

    Fediverse

    Blogging

    2024 You Were Mostly Shit, But I Learned A Few Things

    I don’t really like doing New Year’s resolutions, for a few reasons. A. I don’t see the new year as the beginning of something. Yes, it’s a chance to reflect, but there’s nothing “new” about the year apart from the year …

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    Reflection

    MentalHealth

    MediaLiteracy

    Rhetoric

    Propaganda

    Understanding Introspective vs. Emotionally Reactive People

    I've experienced two kinds of people in my life:

    introspective

    adjective

    1. Inspecting within; seeing inwardly; capable of, or exercising, inspection; self-conscious.
      Similar: self-conscious
    2. Involving the act or results of conscious …
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    Transgender

    Podcast

    Reflection

    Trans Auld Lang Syne

    As I listened to Vermont Movement News’ podcast about a transgender woman, Aunt Jenny, that was a trans mother to many people around Philly (and on the internet via IRC), it reminded me of all the people that time had forgotten. Many people around …

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    Reflection

    Debt

    Repairing Credit, Repairing Life

    When I was married, I had the car (the car loan), the house payment (the mortgage), and the credit cards. We spent all we made, and put a lot of things we needed on credit. So much so that even though we were making close to $80k together, we were …

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    Transgender

    Reflection

    MentalHealth

    Death

    Religion

    Healthcare

    Thoughts on Suicide, Living, and Dying

    My mind has been in a million different places today. I read this thoughtful post by a doctor about a patient that committed suicide. I saw this today on dying with dignity:

    [www.youtube.com/watch](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yPfe3rCcUeQ) …

    Reflection

    MyStory

    Blogging

    What's New is Old Again

    I took this blog offline for a while and I’ve deleted a lot of the posts that don’t make sense being here, but I still feel the need to write. I look back over my writing and my life and see and feel where I was at the time.

    In this life …

    Reflection

    MentalHealth

    The Pressure to Date is Off

    For many years I thought I needed someone else to make me whole. Someone to "complete me." I've tried many ways to find that completeness, but sometimes the cliché is the truth. The easy truth is sometimes the hardest to actualize/realize/deal with. …

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    Reflection

    Feeling Good, Looking Forward

    I can’t believe it, but I’ve kinda got the workout fever thing going on. I usually try and work out Tues-Sat. Lately that workout schedule has been pretty even, and rather intense. (Friday I biked 6.5 miles, ran 2 miles, then biked back …

    Reflection

    MentalHealth

    LJ Reprise - Life At This Moment

    I was searching for an old post on my LiveJournal that I wanted to share with my cousin, and I started reading old posts. I read this old post and almost cried. I wrote a post called “I live, I die” on March 10th, 2004. This is an …

    Reflection

    USPolitics

    Religion

    An Apology To My Christian Friends

    Writing a response to a hateful, bigoted blogger, the words of Gandhi came to mind.

    "I like your Christ. I do not like your Christians."

    “Your Christians are so unlike your Christ. I consider western Christianity in its practical working a …

    Reflection

    Quotes

    Still Right On The Money

    Bill Hicks is still relevant today.

    It’s just a ride, and we can change it any time we want. It’s only a choice. No effort, no work, no job, no savings and money, a choice, right now, between fear and love. The eyes of fear want you to …

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    Reflection

    Bisexual

    She Helped Me Find My Path

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    Every so often, when someone exposes their life, their struggle, their path through life, it helps another person through the struggles they face. For me, Erin Hamilton was that person.

    With the implosion of my life in 2000, I started questioning …

    Reflection

    LGBTQ

    Famous Dead People

    Honestly, all this Reagan worship freaks me the hell out. Thousands of folks line the street for a man they didn’t know? Weird. The only way thing I can even remotely relate to is a twinge of sorrow I felt during Lady Di’s funeral, but …

    Reflection

    Religion

    Farty Jones and Pathetic North Americans

    Yahoo News ran a story about Smarty Jones that stated, “By then the backyard was in near-silence. There were tears on little girls' cheeks and expletives shouted into the air and big, strong guys with their heads buried in their calloused …

    Reflection

    BodilyAutonomy

    Loss of Innocence

    The Loss of Innocence aftermath of the affair by Kelly O’ferrell

    “This is not the face of an ingenue; this is an old soul in a new body- wary, wise to her own long past, on to the wiles of the world, and having miles to go before she …